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Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Thomas Bark 1798-1851 Alice Cox 1799-1855

Thomas Bark
Parents: Samuel Bark and Sarah Newstead
Christened 25 Mar 1798 East Stoke, Nottingham, England
Occupation: F.W.K. Stockings (1841-1851)
Married Alice Cox 20 Jul 1818 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Died 22 April 1851 Beeston, Nottinghamshire, England
Sources
Marriage: IGI Film 0504082 Batch M045391 dated 1813-1835
1841 UK Census Beeston, Nottinghamshire, England (age 43)
1851 UK Census Beeston, Nottinghamshire, England (age 53)
England Marriages 1538-1973
Family Search
Alice Cox
Parents Thomas Cox and Ann Calcraft
Occupation: Midwife (1851)
Christened 2 Apr 1799 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Note: Beeston records are not available online at this time for this date
Died 23 Nov 1855 Beeston, Nottinghamshire, England
Sources
1841 UK Census Beeston, Nottinghamshire, England (age 42)
1851 UK Census Beeston, Nottinghamshire, England (age 51)
England Marriages 1538-1973
Family Search

CHILDREN

Samuel Bark
Born 25 Oct 1818 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Christened 1 Nov 1818 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Occupation: Lace Maker (1861-1871)
Married Jane
Children: adopted one child: Elizabeth Keeling
Died
Buried
Sources
1841 UK Census Beeston, Nottinghamshire, England (age 22)
1861 UK Census Cross Street, Beeston, Nottingham, England (age 42)
1871 UK Census Beeston, Nottingham, England (age 52)
IGI Film 0504082 Batch C045391 dated 1813-1835
Family Search
Ann Bark (twin of Sarah)
Born 18 Jul 1820 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Note: I did not find Ann in Beeston IGI records. Likely died before she was christened
Sources
Family Search
Sarah Bark (twin of Ann)
Born 18 Jul 1820 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Christened 23 Jul 1820 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Married Henry Morris
Died 1893
Sources
1851 UK Census Beeston, Nottinghamshire, England (age 30)
Christening: IGI Film 0504082 Batch C045391 dated 1813-1835
Family Search
Thomas Bark
Christened 18 Nov 1821 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Married Elizabeth Cox
Children
Died
Buried
Sources
1841 UK Census Beeston, Nottinghamshire, England (age 19)
1851 UK Census Beeston, Nottinghamshire, England (age 29)
IGI Film 0504082 Batch C045391 dated 1813-1835
Family Search
Henry Bark
Christened 16 Feb 1824 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Note: Didn't find him in IGI for Beeston
Sources
Family Search
William Bark
Christened 13 Jan 1827 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Sources
IGI Film 0504082 Batch C045391 dated 1813-1835
Family Search
William Bark
Christened 8 Feb 1829 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Sources
1841 UK Census Beeston, Nottinghamshire, England (age 15)
IGI Film 0504082 Batch C045391 dated 1813-1835
Family Search
*Ann Bark

Christened 18 Nov 1828 Beeston, Nottingham, England

Married Joseph Blackburn 25 Dec 1853 Beeston, Nottingham, England

Died 17 Mar 1871 Stapenhill, Derby, England

Buried 20 Mar 1871 Stapenhill, Derby, England
Sources
1841 UK Census Beeston, Nottinghamshire, England (age 12)
Deceased LDS member record
Family Search
Alice Bark (twin to Michael)
Born 29 Jan 1830 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Died 1 Feb 1830 (3 days old)
Sources
Family Search
Michael Bark (twin to Alice)
Born 29 Jan 1830 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Died 1 Feb 1830 (3 days old)
Sources
Family Search
Henry Bark
Born 9 Jun 1832 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Died Apr 1833 (10 months old)
Sources
Family Search
George Bark(possible twin to John)
Christened 30 May 1834 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Note: his given name was missing from the record
Sources
1841 UK Census Beeston, Nottinghamshire, England (age 7)
IGI Film 0504082 Batch C045391 dated 1813-1835
Family Search
John Bark (possible twin to George)
Christened 30 May 1834 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Sources
IGI Film 0504082 Batch C045391 dated 1813-1835
Family Search
Elizabeth Bark
Christened 2 Dec 1836 Beeston, Nottingham, England
Died 17 Apr 1893
Sources
1841 UK Census Beeston, Nottinghamshire, England (age 4)
Family Search

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From a Funeral Program

When I come to the end of the road

And the sun has set for me

I want no rites in a gloom-filled room

Why cry for a soul set free?

Miss me a little - but not for too long

And not with your head bowed low

Remember the love that we once shared

Miss me, but let me go.

For this is a journey that we all must take

And each must go alone

It's all part of the Master's plan

A step on the road to home.

When you are lonely and sick at heart

Go to the hills we know

And bury your sorrow among the trees

Miss me, but let me go.

The Line

Every minute someone leaves this world behind.
We are all in “the line” without knowing it.
We never know how many people are before us.
We can not move to the back of the line.
We can not step out of the line.
We can not avoid the line.

So while we wait in line -

Make moments count.
Make priorities.
Make the time.
Make your gifts known.
Make a nobody feel like a somebody.
Make your voice heard.
Make the small things big.
Make someone smile.
Make the change.
Make love.
Make up.
Make peace.
Make sure to tell your people they are loved.
Make sure to have no regrets.
Make sure you are ready.

I'm My Own Grandpa

Many, many years ago when I was 23,
I got married to a widow
who was as pretty as could be.
She had a grown up daughter
who had a hair of red.
My father fell in love with her
and soon the two were wed.
This made my dad my son-in-law
And changed my very life.
My daughter was my mother,
for she was my father's wife.
To complicate the matters worse,
although it brought me joy,
I soon became the father
of a bouncing baby boy.
My little baby then became a brother -in-law to dad
and so became my uncle though it made me very sad.
For if he was my uncle,
then that also made him brother to the widow's grown-up- daughter,
who of course, was my stepmother.
Father's wife then had a son,
who kept them on the run.
And he became my grandson, for he was my daughter's son.
My wife is now my mother's mother
and it makes me blue.
Because, although she is my wife,
she's my grandma too.
If my wife is my grandmother,
then I am her grandchild.
and every time I think of it,
it simply makes me wild.
For now I have become the strangest case you ever saw.
As the husband of my grandmother,
I am my own grandpa!

Quotes from the Prophets

President Gordon B Hinckley: "It is good to look to the past to gain appreciation for the present and perspective for the future. It is good to look upon the virtues of those who have gone before, to gain strength for whatever lies ahead. It is good to reflect upon the work of those who labored so hard and gained so little in this world, but out of whose dreams and early plans so well nurtured, has come a great harvest of which we are the beneficiaries. Their tremendous example can become a compelling motivation for us all, for each of us is a pioneer in his own life."

President Spencer W Kimball: "I hope to see us dissolve the artificial boundary line we so often place between missionary work and temple and genealogical work, because it is the same great redemptive work!"

President Joseph Fielding Smith: " The responsibility on behalf of our kindred dead rests with equal force on all, according to our individual ability and opportunities...the greatest and grandest duty of all is to labor for the dead."

The Passing of the Pot (Chamber Pot)

As far back in childhood
As memory may go
One household vessel greets me
That wasn't made for show
Beneath the bed twas anchored
Where only few could see
But served the entire family
With equal privacy
Some called the critter Peggy
And some the thundermug
And others called it badger
A few called it jug
To bring it in at evening
Was bad enough no doubt
But heaven help the person
Who had to take it out
Our big one was enormous
And would accomodate
A watermelon party
Composed of six or eight
When nights were dark and rainy
It was a useful urn
On icy winter mornings
The cold rim seemed to burn
At times when things were rushing
And business extra good
Each took his turn a waiting
Or did the best he could
Sometimes when in a hurry
To our disgust and shame
We fumbled in the darkness
And slightly missed our aim
The special one for company
Was decorated well
But just the same it rendered
That old familiar smell
Today this modernism
Relieves me a lot
And only in my vision
I see that homely pot.
(author unknown)

Poem about ancestors

Though steep is the path I follow today,
The footprints of time will show me the way.
For many have traveled a smiliar road,
And carried an equal of heavier load.

No troubles I face are new to this earth,
That man has not faced from time of his birth.
The route has been charted and roads have been paved
By legions before me who were stalwart and brave.

Their steps never faltered nor courage grew dim,
For they trusted the Lord and let Him led them.
If my faith and my trust remain steadfast and true,
God will guide and protect me in all that I do.
- Dolores Karides

The Elusive Ancestor

I went searching for an ancestor.
I cannot find him still.
He moved around from place to place
and did not leave a will.
He married where a courthouse burned.
He mended all his fences.
He avoided any man who came to
take the US census

He always kept his luggage packed,
This man who had no fame,
and every 20 years or so,
This rascal changed his name.
No one else inthis world is
searching for this elusive man,
so I play "Gene-solitaire"
To find him, if I can!

I'm told he's buried in a plot,
with tombstone he was blessed;
but the weather took engravings,
and some vandals took the rest.
He died before the county clerks
were appointed to keep records
No family Bible has emerged -
In spite of all my efforts.

To top it off, this elusive ancestor
who has caused me many groans -
left me even one more challenge:
He brothed a lady,
by the name of "Jones"!
(Got this from a publication
put out by the DUP organization
that names the author: Merrell Kenworthy)

Poem: Heaven's Door

If I should go before you,

If life on earth were through;

I'll stop just inside Heaven's door,

and there I'll wait for you.

You've but to look 'cross star filled skies,

Past the moon and then beyond;

To know my leaving could never break,

This heart's undying bond.

And if you should go before me,

If your journey on earth were through;

You know I will be close behind,

I'll never be far from you.

Across the span of time and space,

This love will reach this far;

For you'll always carry a bit of my heart,

No matter where you are.

Allison Chambers Coxsey©1995 ~ All Rights Reserved

Which Shall It Be? by Adelaide Proctor

Which shall it be?

"Which shall it be? Which shall it be?
I looked at John and John looked at me,
And when I found that I must speak,
My voice seemed strangely low and weak:
˜Tell me again what Robert said,"
And then I, listening, bent my head.
This is his letter:˜I will give
A house and land while you shall live,
If, in return, from out your seven,
One child to me for aye is given."

I looked at John's old garments worn;
I thought of all that he had borne
Of poverty, and work, and care,
Which I, though willing, could not share;
I thought of seven young mouths to feed,
Of seven little children's need,
And then of this.

˜Come, John,said I,
We'll choose among them as they lie
Asleep. So, walking hand in hand,
Dear John and I surveyed our band:
First to the cradle lightly stepped,
Where Lilian, the baby, slept.
Softly the father stooped to lay
His rough hand down in a loving way,
When dream or whisper made her stir,
And huskily he said: ˜Not her!"

We stooped beside the trundle bed,
And one long ray of twilight shed
Athwart the boyish faces there,
In sleep so beautiful and fair;
I saw on James rough, red cheek
A tear undried. E'er John could speak,
He's but a baby, too," said I,
And kissed him as we hurried by.

Pale, patient, Robbie's angel face
Still in his sleep bore suffering's trace.
˜No, for a thousand crowns, not him!"
He whispered, while our eyes were dim.
Poor Dick! bad Dick! our wayward son”
Turbulent, restless, idle one”
Could he be spared?
Nay, He who gave
Bade us befriend him to the grave;
Only a mother's heart could be
Patient enough for such as he;
˜And so," said John, ˜I would not dare
To take him from her bedside prayer."

Then stole we softly up above,
And knelt by Mary, child of love;
˜Perhaps for her ˜twould better be,"
I said to John. Quite silently
He lifted up a curl that lay
Across her cheek in a wilful way,
And shook his head: ˜Nay, love, not thee,
The while my heart beat audibly.

Only one more, our eldest lad,
Trusty and truthful, good and glad,
So like his father. ˜No, John, no!
I cannot, will not, let him go."

And so we wrote, in courteous way,
We could not give one child away;
And afterward toil lighter seemed,
Thinking of that of which we dreamed,
Happy in truth that not one face
Was missed from its accustomed place;
Thankful to work for all the seven,
Trusting the rest to One in heaven."

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Thomas Bark 1798-1851 Alice Cox 1799-1855

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